Quote: That's just my take on it though. Right now you two remind me of two alpha dogs circling each other trying to win leadership of the pack.
I disagree with this strongly. Cobra does not seem to generally disagree with what NOP posts.
Cobra disagrees with HOW he posts.
That was kind of my point. My comparing them to alpha dogs circling each other honestly is not meant as an insult or anything like that...it's what their exchanges were reminding me of, not honestly saying either one is battling for oneupsmanship.
The way Cobra keeps coming at someone, (anyone for that matter, NOPs in this case) his hammering away them with his POV is truly what prompted that analogy for me.
I was actually discussing this thread with my H last night, to get his perspective on it (I like to do that)...during that discussion I think I finally said out loud what I really meant to say here. Cobra seems to keep wanting NOP's to prove himself on this BB(you may say you don't Cobra, but I think yo do)...when no one here owes anyone anything. We have nothing to prove to each other here...we are all free to take the advice others give...or not. If NOP's has something to say to someone that is helpful, he's free to say it...the recipient is free to take that advice or not. Personally, I completely respect NOP's advice....it's proven quite sound throughout my time on this BB, that's all I need. For me, it matters not what NOP's FOO issues are and whether or not he wishes to discuss them, what matters for me is the fact that his track record for advice in the past has proven itself reliable IMPO.
I like Cobra, I think he often does have sound advice as well...although I think he wields that advice like a battering ram.
