good work surrender
You are in a good place right now. I so wish I was there. As for the making love? How much closer emotionally can you get. Even with everything that has happened. (My W PA with the OM). If we could get that close just once I would be so happy. Not getting my hopes up but knowing she is letting me back into her world.
Keep up the good work
I hope someday to be writing the same thing

Husband

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know