Had a revised proposal of splitting assets when I got home from work (sitting on the kitchen table). (H had told me over the phone he was working on it). I am frustrated that he left it on the kitchen table. D16 always gets home before me and it could be confusing to her and none of her business! This one has him keeping the house since I told him I was thinking about moving. I will not discuss a financial settlement until I have talked to a lawyer.
I have a meeting tonight with D16's counselor to help me determine what will be best for her. I realize moving out of state is not best, but I will be job hunting and so we could move within the area. I had already planned to turn in my letter of resignation at the end of May long before H told me his plans. I need to go through with this because my current job is just frustrating and I have been unhappy for years. I talked to my sister and a good friend mentioning that I was concerned about all the changes at once. They both said I should look on this as an opportunity! (BTW, I did invite H to go with me to the mtg.)
Finished Embracing Uncertainty as one part of my life is becoming more certain. I need to reread it already!!!!!!
