For me, since the end result is a POSITIVE CHANGE for the R, that is a bit different. I think it is LESS COMPLICATED than going to your friends and family in your real life, who know both of you, etc. Plus, I feel everyone here has the same "philosophy" as me and that is marriage is important. While most people will SAY they feel that way, you know how it can be when you are all upset/crying over a situation...it's common for people to have a "is this worth it?" mentality. I'm being very general here, but you know how girlfriends can be! It's WAY DIFFERENT when you are looking at your children! That makes decisions completely different!!!
