Needed: A Big Dose of Reality

[iluvme]

Last month, just between 4/15 and 5/1 when he left there were about 700 some minutes and for the 2 or 3 months before that, he had hiked the bill up to about $300 b/c he was going over his minutes -- 900+ and that was just mobile to mobile, not all the minutes he was using. Makes me so mad to think about it.[b][/b]

I know how you feel. Even though he is no longer talking to her, your feelings about how you were deceived is still overwhelming when you see the evidence. When I found a stack of cell calls to OW dating back 6 months of 2006, I was reliving the past. I remember how I felt during the kids b-day party, during MC, the times we tried to spend "quality time" together, and my horrible b-day send off. Now, I feel I can make some sense of why I felt he wasn't there for me during that time and why he was lashing out for no good reason over stupid things.

It is funny how cell phones calls damn a majority of the WAS here! :)o I think I would've been gullible and signed D papers thinking it was all my fault if I hadn't found out. The he would magically appear with a GF in a few months. He tried to be slick.

Sounds like your H made a choice to come back with his heart. I do not like to be pessimistic but protect your heart. Lord knows you are trying your best to smile and be happy. Has he changed his attitude or behaviour towards you or your family? Is he more involved or engaging?