I 2nd that. I can't imagine your H would appreciate the fact that we share w/ each other, whether we know who the others are or not.

That brings up another subject then -- is this in a way not necessarily cheating, but not being honest w/ our spouses by posting here & sharing intimate details hoping for advice?

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10