Nikki,
You're doing great girl! I know it is easy to get down on yourself for how you could do this better, but think about this:
1. You are telling H what you need.
2. Your H is to a point where he is willing to respond to what you ask for (even if not 100% yet).
3. You are learning from your mistakes and making changes based upon this knowledge.

Sounds like a recipie for sucess if I ever heard one.

Keep up the PMA and be a perfect Ho at the party !

SD


Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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