Still working on happiness

[I_Still_Love_Him]

Nicola,
Wow, Althea has really laid it all out there for you. Now it is up to you.

You must find a way to visualize what you want instead of what you fear.

Fear has no place in our life unless you focus on it. You have to get rid of the negative thoughts that were ingrained in you and start thinking who Nicola is and what Nicola has accomplished and yes what Nicola deserves. If you believe it, it will come and you will know it once you are face-to-face with what it is you want.

Althea
Great post. I, too believe that Nicola's H and so many of our Hs are in denial and fooling themselves. They will realize that happiness does not come from someone or something but comes from within.

Our H's don't like themselves so they feel unworthy of us. If one does not love themselves enough then how can they give love to someone else when there is none within them to give.

I've seen it tooooooo many times over and over again where the WAS does come to regret their decision; only in a few cases, was the decision the right one. Whether they come to regret it or not should not matter to us because we will focus on us and what we want. Whether we end up with them or someone else is not known right now but what we do know is that MR. RIGHT will be.

Nicola,
It was great talking to you tonight. You sound better and I know you WILL be fine because you ARE worthy, you ARE beautiful, you ARE wise, you ARE lovable and you WILL be happy again because you deserve it.

Much love to you,
ISLH