thank you I particularily liked the line "trying to move on with my life and live it rather than spend all my time here anymore. I guess since I really have no ties with the community and my kids are both relocating to continue high education selling the house and getting my own life seems like the right thing to do at this point.
I know that tonight I over reacted and set myself back by allowing my ego to get the most of me. I told a complete stranger, whom my H had sent to the house to view it without telling the kids or I , about my situation as a recation to the hurt I was feeling instead of acting detached. It bothered my daughter and she pointed pout how inappropriate it was. And she is right. I am not a victim but I sure did a good job of portraying one.
I intend to work very hard on that.

Annie