Hi I'm hoping someone can help shore up a sinking ship with some kind words. I think I blew it in terms of all the great DB I have been doing. I have listed our house because I realize that I have to let go and get a life. A man arrived at the door tonight saying that my H sent him to look at the house. He is a police officer that is transfering to this area. Since we were not expecting anyone to come through to view the house my kids and I were a little upset that my H did not phone us first to tell us that this person was going to come by. He introduced himself, saying that he knew my BIL ( a police officer too) and went on to say that my H told him he had finished everything in the house. I reacted to this untruth, the kids and I repainted, finished hard wood floors and got the entire house and property complete, by telling this man that my H and I were not together that my H was off reliving his second teenage years. If I am honest with myself I would say I did that in order to turn this man off because I am not sure I want to sell this house and because I was angry and disappointed ( my ego talking) that it has had to come to this. I spoke with my daughter after he left to explain why I said what I did ( not right ) so that she would understand. I immediately have set a goal as not talking about my situation to any one. I am trying very hard to get alife and I feel like I had a major set back today. I need to refocus my energies and let go.
