Bluntly? Get out of your own GD POV. Your life is YOUR story. Period. What you have to go through, to get it better, DO it. Don't apologize for it. Don't justify it. Do it.
Share your POV with others. If they want it, fine. If they don't. fine. What is driving that ego of yours to be right all the friggin' time with this FOO stuff? Do you have any inkling that SOME people may be beyond that? Jesus... sometimes you sound like CeMar... broken record and all.
Not to say you don't have incredibly insightful posts, at times. You do. You are a man who is worthy of empathy and respect. You just don't seem to be able to give it.
But to ram another, down their throat... for what YOU see lacking... is a step beyond helpful. Only in MY POV. We all do what we have to do... to make life right for US... or in my case, ME. But my goodness, guy... how many ways to Sunday does someone have to tell you? How is it that you can ask for respect if you are not willing to give it?
It is one thing to challenge... sure. I do not see you as debating a point, but attacking someone's character. There is a difference. Learn. Grow. There is room for both, and I THINK that is what the NOPS are asking of you.
