My wife is falling in love with OM - help.

[andyv]

NS4U,

Mate, it is sounding more and more positive from an outsider looking in.

I wouldn't worry too much about what she is saying in regards to her future without you.

There is no reason your W cannot get those feelings back. If someone were to ask her if she would be feeling this way about you a few years ago, when she was in love with you, she would have said "You're Crazy".

From all the sitches I have read, all the success stories etc, I see the same patterns re lost love and feelings. The common theme for many of these is that the S eventually gets those feelings back (sometimes it may be too late but often it isn't).

It all depends on how you handle things. Keep being your "perfect" self in her eyes and others, and she will realise the mistake she has made, and those feelings and love will come back.

I have had friends (and friends of friends) that have gone through the same things you and I are going through. Nearly all of them are more in love now than ever before. The only ones that are not together are the left behind spouses that have moved on and cannot forgive (and in many cases, the WAS has tried to reconcile!!).

So keep on keeping on.
All the best bud,
Andyv