Lisa, Of course you were emotional! Your baby is, what, 2 weeks old?? Give yourself a break, sweetie.
This is where I am so angry with my H--he should have given me a break post-baby and instead I was completely on edge with his nastinesses. It interfered with my care of baby (ie, breastfeeding, because I was emotional and as we women know, that affects the ability to relax and feed).
BUT the fact is that he didn't, and I need to DB now.
Try to get support from others if you can. For me, there were few people as I am probably an excessively private person, but it would have helped. If you can afford it, do the DB counselor thing.
Again, end conversations first. Yes, you are busy!!
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D