Lisa, Of course you were emotional! Your baby is, what, 2 weeks old?? Give yourself a break, sweetie.

This is where I am so angry with my H--he should have given me a break post-baby and instead I was completely on edge with his nastinesses. It interfered with my care of baby (ie, breastfeeding, because I was emotional and as we women know, that affects the ability to relax and feed).

BUT the fact is that he didn't, and I need to DB now.

Try to get support from others if you can. For me, there were few people as I am probably an excessively private person, but it would have helped. If you can afford it, do the DB counselor thing.

Again, end conversations first. Yes, you are busy!!


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D