thanks jr

believe me i have done ton for myself since this. i have spent 4 or 5 weekends in nyc. i went to ecuador for 2 weeks, and went to atlanta for the final 4. i have season tix to the phillies and have been to a bunch of games. i spend a couple of nights a weeks hitting my favorite watering holes with my boys.
i workout at least 2 sometimes 3 days a week. i sit in my back yard by the pool and read and just veg everyday. life is good for me but i am just so stinkin confused about someone can do a complete 180 in a matter of weeks.