What a great note! Sometimes all we want to know is that other person is aware that there is a problem, that it BOTHERS them (at least 1/2 as much as it bothers us), and they're WORKING on it.
He's trying.
Thanks again Choco. I really do believe he wants the M to work more than ever. I have great faith in that. I posted it hoping maybe some others could take something from it themselves, and to show how sweet my H really is. The weird thing was, I showed it to my neighbor, the friend who is getting S, and she said "oh that would never work on me. I'm too far gone already. Too little too late." It did make me feel good though that I was NOT in that state of mind. That his words could still melt my heart. I hope your W can regain some connection with you too Choco. I'm rooting for you. LFL