What a great note! Sometimes all we want to know is that other person is aware that there is a problem, that it BOTHERS them (at least 1/2 as much as it bothers us), and they're WORKING on it.
He's trying.
Thanks again Choco. I really do believe he wants the M to work more than ever. I have great faith in that. I posted it hoping maybe some others could take something from it themselves, and to show how sweet my H really is. The weird thing was, I showed it to my neighbor, the friend who is getting S, and she said "oh that would never work on me. I'm too far gone already. Too little too late." It did make me feel good though that I was NOT in that state of mind. That his words could still melt my heart. I hope your W can regain some connection with you too Choco. I'm rooting for you. LFL
Really. As a previous LD... I needed SOMETHING to trust... obsviously the two of you struggle... break the mold... just a little bit... see how he feels... have him go to the first one.... put some distance... lovingly challenge him.... kwis?
I'll see what I can find Corri. But geez loueeze, I quick romp on the couch would be just as good for me. Don't want to flood him with his fears, just systematically desensitize. LFL
Well, the romp on the couch came true. LFL just got lucky. He said, don't you want to go into the bedroom? I said nope. Did it right there in the family room next to the broken table. LOL. (Ok, not on it, but close enough). LFL
Yahoo - romp on the couch after an awesome note/declaration of his love for you and dedication to your M. Love it!! I'm so very happy for you. That is awesome. I love happy endings
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
