Most women are not all that reassured by the man pitching fits and vandalizing their property. Only when they've been surpressing all their emotions and leaving their wives cut off emotionally from them do they start considering such antics better than continued noncommunication. But it's not the sort of thing that will keep them happy forever.
It will if he proceeds to throw me down on top of the smashed furniture and have his way with me.
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It's not an ideal marriage where the partners trust each other to behave themselves? Or it's not an ideal marriage where the partners feel duty-bound to protect each other completely from their own emotions?
The latter silly.
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You already knew he was jealous... you were just frustrated that he was holding everything in, including that jealousy.
All too true.
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Also, after several days to reflect on it, would you say that getting an email from OM led you to reinterpret everything your H does in the worst possible light?
No, I wouldn't go that far. But it did send me in a tailspin for a while. The reality is, I have to remember that om was not a good match for me at all. Other than the sex, we really had nothing in common. So why waste my time fixating on it any longer. Boy is LFL making progress or what?
