Afterall..... This IS my life V

[RedHeadWife]

Heather, I honestly can relate to how you are probably feeling. That horrible sick feeling in your heart & stomach.

Also, some people may say they would have already left or would leave now, but you never know what you would do until you are actually in the sitch. My philosophy was always "you cheat, you're gone," but when it actually happened, I've put up w/ 2 EA's & a one night stand BJ. What the he!!'s that all about??

You need to just take a step back & figure out what is really going on and what you want to do about it. That could take a few days, weeks, months, whatever, but you need to be comfortable w/ what you decide to do in the end.