Personally, I like getting advice that sounds like prophetic wisdom. It makes me feel like my life is an adventure and I just got a clue from the oracle. I think BF gives rather cryptic advice too. So I kind of believe that I will only have transcendent sex in the primeval forest when I find a never married rake who is ready to be reformed by me and only if I don't try to get him to "top my top". So, first I have to do something that I think will be almost impossibly difficult (I don't think I'll ever be that hot)and then I have to do something that I can't even fully comprehend (but I am thinking that if a sexual relationship was like a Mobius strip then you could be the bottom and the top at the same time. Also, a Mobius strip only has one boundary. Or maybe like a Klein bottle which has no "differentiation" between inside and outside surfaces and is two Mobius strips (with no clear top or bottom orientation) glued together.)
But, I'm probably overthinking it.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
