I don't understand what this whole deal is about but I don't think the Nops M is necessarily being presented as "the model" but as one that works FOR THEM. I have seen multiple models presented here that seem to work for the people involved. It is good to see what works for people and to entertain the possibility that something like that might work for someone else. This is a problem with multiple solutions and I don't believe that FOO is the determining factor in what will work and for who. What your FOO issues mean to you and how you are dealing with them now is more important than what they are. Two people can have practically identical family histories and yet, interpret them differently. How important the issues become in their current life will be radically different. I value what the Nops have to say because they have fought past the roadblocks - their solution is immaterial.
