Heather wrote:"I should clarify that the money he wanted was our mutual tax return money. It's only in my account because that is where I had it routed to on our return. We are supposed to use the money to pay for the new bathrooms, but the money belongs to both of us."

Then remind him of the original plan for the money. If he is still determined, then give him his ratio half and you keep yours for other eventualities.

-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.