Cobra I see a big difference between you and NOPS, at least at this point. YOU are here asking for help in your situation, or at least have been fairly recently....knowing your FOO isues IS helplful to help guide you, when you let us or want us to.
NOP's has (for the most part) worked his way through his martial problems now and is here to support/help others who are asking for help. It's not necessary at this point to delve into his FOO issues. If he were asking for the help, then I could see it being helpful...but right now, it's not necessary to have that info. Challenging him on it doesn't seem productive to me.
