No none is suggesting your situation remain static. It won't. Somehow, somewhere, something will blow, and trust me, it won't be long now. You'll get your chance to say all of that. When it happens, you and she better be in marriage councelling, so you can have a professional mediate, for the sake of your children if not for your own. You made an appointment, yes?
Your wife is in lala land, and she's not going to snap out of it tomorrow. See it as a science experiment. Should be interesting.
