I am told I should be kind, be loving, treat her as if we were very best friends (but not be needy/grabby).
At the same time, in reading on infidelity and EAs, I'm reading where the wayward wife gets some of what they need from each man, and so she has no need to change.
If I do not have sufficient proof of an affair, and I act like her best friend, w.t.f. WOULD she change? She gets the best of both worlds.
She told me at lunch last week that she wanted to "miss" me again, to see if she would. I think maybe I need to start now.
