Hey Lisa, it's Tonya. Reading your story has given me the courage to post. You can read my sitch on the We're Separated...What Now? forum, titled Separated and Pregnant, advice appreciated. Anyway, I was just reading over your hubby's phone call and our husbands seem quite similar in that they are one person one day and a totally different person the next.

I hated how he spoke to you after the baby was born but am now confused by this more recent phone conversation. I agree with everyone else that you need to focus on that beautiful little girl and all the joy that comes with those first few days/weeks/months of life. I go in for my c-section tomorrow and was just noting on a new post that hubby is PLANNING to stay with us at the hospital. Whether or not this will happen is anyone's guess.

I'll be thinking of you and will look for an update from you upon my return home from the hospital. Take care and know that you have a wonderful support system here.


Me: 31
H: 34
S1: 3
S2: Newborn
H left 02/07