Choc,

I 2nd Lil's comment to stop 2nd guessing yourself on this. Also, I think that confrontation WAS necessary in your situation...your W needed the wakeup call...she needed to be snapped back to reality. Without that confrontation there's a good chance she would have continued on in the EA fog of infidelity...still justifying her actions.

Your calling her on the carpet was necessary.

Well behaved women rarely ever make history!