Thanks for the advice. I guess I'll try that next time. I see what you mean about doing something he does not expect.
It may not be "right" and I know it's not "DBing" but I have pretty much let him know that I had really been trying to meet him on my needs and I was ready to see him meeting me on my needs. When I fill his cup of reducing conflict and showing him I enjoy having sex with him, I want him to give me some appreciation and some romance. You'd think he would get it that these just don't do it for me. lol
When I was telling a girlfriend weeks ago about a similar comment he made, she burst out laughing and said, "I would have said, 'TRY AGAIN!'"
