I am feeling very strong today and like things are Brilliant ..not just OK. I have power in me that I never knew existed , I am strong , stronger than I ever could have imagined.
I have not one shred of doubt that sex is God's way of helping H and W empower EACH OTHER! I'd bet if you asked your H, he'd feel similar, but he'd feel more like he was fulfilled, or completely relieved. Oh I wish more women would go where you've gone. We should also pray for those that would love to go there, but have no willing H to go to. I personally know how frustrating that is. It's like having a race car in the garage, but never being able to drive it. Look but don't touch.
My W is very independent and prideful. She does everything for everyone else, but her pride will not allow her to give herself completely to me. She's put me in a compartment, throws in a little food and water, and then goes on about her business. Between her independent spirit, and her mother's teaching that sex was dirty, our R remains far less fulfilling than it should be.
Ali, I can't stop saying how proud I am of you. You have done an incredible thing here. A normal person doing something truly incredible. I don't think most women understand just how important sex is to men, and how powerful it is for both parties. Thankfully for your H, now YOU do!
Peace and Love,
COG
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