All the while, I had a foot out the door, not realizing that he had a foot and a half out. That's what woke me up

Yup. That is how it goes. Too bad it has to get to this before something’s get worked on.

There is another forum where the couple got to that point and someone left the M.

Sometimes it took a separation for both parties to see the problems and want to fix them.

All stick, all carrot, not going to work for many Rs. Just my opinion.

Lou

Hope you are doing well in Florida ((((NJ)))).