MJ, I won't be sharing any confidEnces with blackfoot.
That's probably for the best since I agree with SG that he is at heart quite strait-laced. I just get annoyed with him when he acts like my 2bx was a reasonable person or a semi-decent husband.
Your STBX was an abusive a§§hole. SouthernGirls are also all-knowing, and all-wise.