I've also gotta think that the thought has crossed my WIFE'S mind -- "Choc., why couldn't you just have shut up and DONE this, instead of calling me (and all of my issues and insecurities) out with the e-mail and the lunch?!"
She probably does wonder that. But if you went that route, you'd be letting her off the hook again. You can't catch a fish until you hook 'em. kwis?
