Your words helped me right at the beginning of understanding some of the ED issues from a male POV.
I'm not sure if your bf would be able to take this particular supplement because of his other medication. My own H had no medical difficulties other than high cholesterol which I have since discovered can be one reason for ED plus tremendously stressful job.
My H was really depressed about the ED so I ordered something called prelox from a health/vitamin supplier. It contains L~arginine which is good for blood flow and has the added benefit of reducing cholesterol. I checked with my husbands doctor first if there was any reason that he would be unable to take this and he gave the o.k.
It takes about a month to kick in and my H took one night and morning. I sold it to him as more of a vitamin supplement and so far has been working really well. Only thing I disliked about them is the pills are blue!!! The difference is that ML can be spontaneous no planning on taking an hour before or feeling like a waste of time if the partner isn't in the mood.
Obviously he would have to check with the doctor but hopefully your bf would be able to take this supplement.
It is a bit scary ML just in case things go wrong but so far I'm having a great time long may it last.
Choc If your wife sees the only problem being with you I can see how difficult it may be to resolve anything. I'm not sure if my H could really see that his own actions and behaviour caused a lot of our problems. I think he may have read some of what I wrote on this forum a while ago and started to realise that the lack of intimacy wasn't all my fault. Once he realised I did want more passion then he started to reconnect more to me and the family as a whole.
Got to dash to pick up son good luck once again to lil too.
