Choc, I can't offer much wrt to how affairs happen and what to do and I do NOT want to pepper your trampled-upon mind with trite crap such as "rome wasn't built in a day" etc (blech!) but can I just say this? You are really shining, man! I like the new Choc a helluva lot and I liked the old one pretty good. This new guy, tho, he's quite masculine and has a new toughness to him. I liked the lyrics-quoting sensual guy you were before, but you're the whole package now. Keep it up!
