Think first..give your S the benefit of doubt

[cat03]

Frankly, I used to view sex as an extra in a M.... something that isn't a necessity. MISTAKE. It is a necessity. That shift in mindset was a big move for me.
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wish someone would've told me the damage a W can make by putting her H at the end of her list and viewing sex as a chore.

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men are scum
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I grew up w/the kind of attitude, how sad that how's most M begin.

Doing much much better, H has been much more affectionate, he even broke our 2-week-no-sex agreement after the 3rd day, ( I didnt' complain of course
One thing though, after months of him not using the internet I can see he's been on it and deleting the history, and by chance I did find a link, for porn. I wonder if he's forcing himself to be "in the mood" for me by looking at that stuff, we've already had that talk and he knows I dont' feel confortable when he looks at that stuff) He's only been online 2x, so it is not that he's on every time.

I will make an efford not to expect (and make him feel I am) affection 24/7. I want him to be confortable w/me and to be at ease.

Thanks for the feedback friends, it is always nice to hear from you all)))))))