My Marriage still feels hopeless

[Yoyowife]

My H just keeps telling me he hasn't been happy for 3 years or so. I asked him why he didn't tell me this. He said I know I should have talked to you.

The part that I don't understand is that when we all took our marriage vows and it said for better or worse...where's the part that said or until you find someone who can make you happier.

My H also had the nerve to say to me that if he has to split the business (he wants it all) that he wouldn't be able to support our daughters the way they are accustomed to? He said do you not care about them? He said I would ruin everything. Wow, can you believe that? Umm... who started all of the messes we are in? I've told him that I didn't want his business I just want my family, but if we went through with the D then we would split everything in half.

I'm not trying to be bitter or get revenge, but I have seen a person that I don't know right now. He has done lots of things that I didn't think he would do. So how do I know that the OW wouldn't keep him from supporting those girls and also why would I want her getting half of our business when she played a major role in our break up!