This morning has come in warm and sunny and I'm feeling strong. A question, though:
I'm trying to find "me" in these postings, and I wonder what it means if H is not angry, not aggressive, not off-kilter or wild with money, not doing much of anything besides letting this cool, detached separation become status quo? He's treating me as if I'm a nice aquaintance, a neighbor -- what I'm supposed to be doing with him. He's working on serious things with C - so maybe that's what's happening - but it feels almost as if we're just in the midst of a stand-off -- with him deciding to sit tight until I agree to end the M? Have any of you been here and did you do anything dramatic to change the interaction or did it work best to just sit and let the time pass? Any thoughts on a good 180 to try?
