He went the same direction CeMar is... he got more hurt and more pissed and withdrew even further... and all that did was fuel his feelings of entitlement... and all that did was make things worse.
I feel just like that. I am going the wrong way with this. I can make things worse. But the rub here is that this also seems to imply that I can not make things better. It implys that things will not get better until the woman changes herself without the help of the man.
So Corri, what could your husband have done differently that would have caused massive change in you?
