. My gut tells me that he does not want me to know that he has bought a Harley Davidson.
My son doesn't like me to know some of the things he does either....because he knowes he's wrong, so his guilty concious tries to hide it. But I usually find out anyways.
I think your husband is struggling with many things right now, many different emotions are racing through his head. There is no exact time limit.......your doing fine by having no expectations. He's got to travel this road by himself. He, unfortunaltly will probably crash......but when? That is the ultimate question.
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!