Soooo... if she were doing stuff with you ONLY because she wanted to maintain a cordial relationship with you for the kids, don't you think that she would do stuff with you only as part of a family outing? NOT, just the two of you... IMHO - she's lying to herself!
It's ok about the counseling thing for now.. My H has been going for 3 months and he's actually not ready for the truth either. Right now, he's just wasting money by going each week.
