Yes I think he is her savior. During the spring and summer before I had conclusive answers that it was an A, my H would include her in alot of what we did. He commented about how she was alone with no one to help her. Each time a relationship ended for her, H was there to help move her, paint her new digs and essentially do whatever she needed doing. I might point out that in every case that she ended a relationship it was not long before she had another one. The last time my H was home he told me that none of her other R's should have happened. I couldn't help myself and said "Yours included, bud." I was quite ill last year, it puzzled the dr's here. They thought for a while it was Lukemia. As it turns out it is acute iron deficiency and a mal absorption problem with vitamine B 12. The symptoms mimic lukemia. I guess that's the burden that he felt. Annie
