Originally Posted By: trekker
As for the lawyer, the last time he was home and we reconnected, and it was truly him, he cautioned me and told me to take care of myself ,do everything I could do to protect myself financially and it's all going to work out in the end. I got the sense that at the core of him he is afraid of loosing the nest egg that we have amassed over the years.
Annie


Gasp! He's been taken by aliens His original self came out and actually told you to take care of yourself financially??? Holy cow Batman! Bless his heart..and I mean this....He KNOWES whats going on! Why can't he stop himself then? OW has some stong mojo on him.

Friends/family will tell you what they think you want to hear....they mean well. But it's you that ultimatly have to make the decision as it's your life, your children's future at hand.

I'm sorry......I find it amazing that your H is kinda aware of what is happening but can't stop it.

Does he know about OW and her financial sitch?? Is he the kind of person that feels the need to "save" people? But can never fathom the thought that they might need saving too?

Sigh......hit the brakes on speeding down the mountain......it is amazing what you can hear when you "Zip the Lips". Took me forever to learn that too!!! GEEEEEESH! Your my new HERO

Jeanette

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