Yes I have no respect for this OW. It would have been a totally different story if this had of happened ,I clearly get the how of infedelity, and they would have come to me as adults and said "listen Annie we didn't mean for this to happen but we love each other and we are going to be together." Instead when I found out I phoned her early in the morning and invited myself out for tea. I then told her I knew. I forgive you because quite frankly I'm worth it. This act of forgiveness is more about a gift to me than to you. Carrying around this cancer that is you I am not choosing to do. Oh by the way do you love him? She said no. I told her I was very sad for H indeed. Her response was Oh Annie we didn't want to hurt you. No I believe that only because I was never considered in the equation at all. This is about you and H and your selfishness.
Oh by the was OW claims to be very religious.Both H and OW have loss respect of fellow officiers they work with.
Yes I am back on the bank card. H put me back on after I texted him and asked why I couldn't pay the bills or access the investment accounts. Now the investment accounts show up but they are 'view only' I have no access. Scary stuff. Annie
