Thank you for your post. You said something right there at the end:
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I guess why I'm telling you this is to give you hope that you CAN rebuild intimacy with your wife but you BOTH have to see that you BOTH have to change.
That's precisely what frustrates -- and frightens -- me. I don't think she has ever tried to change. We've been thru this several times before, and she's even gone so far as to admit to her "issues," and to make promises she has then broken. She either no longer things she needs to, or she's confused an unable to.
Today will be interesting. I'm expecting to get a couple of MC appt. options from our Employee Assistance Program at work, which I will then call W with to coordinate our schedules. I fully expect her to try to stall until after I get back from being out of town 5/26-5/30. I am going to push to at least have our initial session before we leave, as I need to know that she's committed to this. If you all remember, when we had "The Talk" at lunch last week, we agreed that MC was "Step 1."
