Need Veteran Piecer's Advice - desperately!!!

[Heartbroken]

Thanks to both of you. Yesterday was so hard for me - I was letting H get me way DOWN and I am getting back to my optimistic self today! This is just so hard to keep at it - I feel I was more optimistic when he moved OUT to the apt to spend more free time with OW. That I handled better than his depression - go figure! I just made my C appt unfortunatley I cannot get in until 6/4 - but that may be good since H will have two under his belt by then!

I re-read the part about depression in DR and it helped a lot too. I just need to keep the faith and hang in there just like I keep telling everyone in the infidelity forum!! BABY STEPS!!

Now I just have to listen to my own advice!

Have a great week! It's only a 4 day work week for us - we are off to WI to visit family/friends (this may be causing H stress b/c he has to face my family)...