I couldn't stand it anymore. And I knew I was at risk of doing something stupid if I didn't tell H the truth. So, we had a 6 hour marathon discussion/fight/cry fest last night. My eyes are still little puffy slits, looks good.
Well it's about friggin time you two did this LFL! I'm actually glad you lost it, it's been a long time coming. If you hadn't finally lost it and been radically honest with him you'd still be sitting in a stagnating marriage. Now at least you've hashed some things out, you've cleared the air, you've both released pent up emotions....FINALLY! I'm glad to hear it.