Thanks for your response. I am 47 years old as is H. We have a S 21 who is finishing his last semester of university (Canadian term) this September. My D is 19 and just starting at the university of Waterloo this September. I have been in counseling and as part of the counseling it was suggested to detach I should sell the house and relocate. As for the lawyer part, I am aware of OW's history and am afraid for our investments. We relocated to this community 41/2 years ago. In that time OW has had 3 relationships. one marriage that ended in divorce ( her 3rd divorce) a common law living arrangement and a boy friend. Then the affair with my H. Each time she has gotten the men in financial difficulty. I need the finances for my kids school. H income is in excess of $85 thousand and mine is $35 thousand. Both H and OW are police officers. OW makes same as H. H put OW on his bank card and unknown to him I became privy to her debt. She has alot and cannot manage money. Now H has bought a $15 thousand motorcycle and we still have to pay for S and D to go to school. Do you believe in visions? I was given a vision that I needed to put the house on the market but that it would not sell. There have been no potential buyers through.
As for the lawyer I have cancelled 3 times prior to this.
And yes I am a stander. About 3 weeks ago I awoke at 3:30 am to a strong vision that my H and my kids are with me celebrating my recieving my degree. A voice telling me that everything will be fine.
