I also wondered why your contacting atty and putting house up for sale. He is very confused.......and OW is the one making him this way. He, from what I could get from your post seems to know this or is aware of this subconsiously. Yes....OW's are desperate heat seeking leaches! They prey upon the vulnerability of our spouses.
Your husband does not want a divorce, nor does he want to be with this woman. He's trapped in a web....
Since you have been lurking so long you should know this...right? You do seem like a stander.....good for you. Your H is text book MLC with a little extra confusion thrown in.
You've done wonderful so far! I was ashamed at myself when I read your post....hell, you accomplished so much in a short time while it took me lets see....gotta use my toes to count 16 months to comprehend! Kudo's for you.
You end your thread with "I have let go, given in and gave over to God". So why not do just that? Don't drive off the cliff just yet.....go ahead on contact atty just so you know what options are yours.....but why not wait on the rest of it? Your so DB'ing knowledge empowered now, just sit back on the curb and watch it unfold.
Once again, your doing great.......just relax and re-think on some issues your wanting to push forward.
Smooches Annie
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
16 months to comprehend! Kudo's for you.