Right off the top of my head I can think of at least 3 or 4 guys who do behave this way in their relationships with women that I know, so .....pretty much all I have to do is start acting like those women (which means I have to be much tougher than comes natural to me). However, since I s*ck at withholding sex, I'll pretty much have to concentrate on the "kicking *ss to curb" part of the equation.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver