I think it is working. My W was saying how busy she was going to be this weekend taking our son to get shoes. I told her I can take him. (I was a little nervous doing these things because if anything goes wrong it’s my fault, like my son forgets his jacket at school. It’s my fault) Anyway we went and had to go to two stores until we found she’s he liked and when we brought them home there was no problem. (Yet).

My W and I went out on a date. (Played some pool) sat everything was nice. We both laughed and had fun. No hand holding or kissing but we had fun.
I did (with the recomendation of a friend) send her a short letter in the mail (we are still living in the same house). Thanking her for our first date and hoped we can have another. Where I may have blew it. (But it sounded good at the time) was I used her maiden name.
I guess I’ll find out in a day or two

Next Saturday I am going out without her.

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know