"Ok, 'just hanging in there' is not proactive. What do you sugguest I do to be proactive?" I just gave you an idea in the previous post. I want you to think about being proactive, in a strong non needy way, and see if you can come up with a way to make it part of who you are. That means the possibility of rejection, no the certainty of rejetion is there, but it does not affect your decisions on expressing what you want. Taking action to get what you want.
Your welcome to run your ideas by us. Playing Cyrano de Bergerac never works out for the intended.
Snuggling isn't all I wanted to do. I didnt think so. Maybe you were just to shy to be 'graphic' with us, (really we dont mind) or maybe its hard for you to express yourself in this way. Which may part of the reason, she isnt there. So feel free to push out of your comfort zone, in regards to this. Euphemisms, are a nice safe cushion to hide behind. Try something a little more direct and assertive. It can start with snuggling, but where does it lead to? What is a 180 for you in this area of expressing what you want sexually?
Yes, I would like to have kids. But, most important is having my wife back.
I think a woman would be better suited to addressing this.
I didnt catch whether your W was affection/touch starved as well...
